Today I realized that I’m 19 weeks pregnant, and the only thing I’ve posted on here about it is our pregnancy announcement and one other post. It’s not that I don’t have things to talk about…life just keeps seeming to get in the way.
I’m a SAHM to one busy toddler, so how busy could I really be? The problem is that “Stay at Home Mom” is only a job description…not an accurate picture of my daily life.
A year and a half ago, my husband and his father had the opportunity to buy the business that they had been running for a number of years. That in and of itself was crazy. Six months ago we had the opportunity to buy the counterpart retail store on the square of our little town as well. Somehow, remodeling and revamping a 10,000 square foot retail space wasn’t enough…we decided to open a coffee shop AND a brick oven pizza place in part of the building as well. Add to that the fact that my husband was taking 13 college credit hours this past semester, and you start to realize that he was really rarely ever home. We hardly got to see him unless it was at the store, and we frequented it as often as we could.
Life was crazy, to say the least. I felt like a single parent many days. I even traveled on a plane alone all the way out to sunny California with my wiggling, active “lap child” toddler son because my husband was far too busy to go. I missed having family time. I missed getting to eat dinner together every night. I missed my husband.
Yet, somehow we made it out and things have slowed down considerably. Only now, I’m the one working. My husband was needing help with some office work at the plant, and I’ve been working a few hours a day to help them catch up. The rest of the day is pretty much a wash from my son being so thrown off his schedule. Its rough, to say the least.
And did I mention that I’m really, REALLY trying to stay on top of my garden this year? Yeah, life is full and crazy. Yet, somehow amidst all this craziness little Baby Baker makes his or her presence known with near constant kicks and jabs. I’m thankful for those little kicks. They make me slow down and really sit and think.
So there you have it…a little snippet of my life right now. Hopefully it won’t be too long before you hear from me again. I’m not making any promises, though. 🙂